Knowledge

Isabella borrowed a 'general history' book from the library the other day and last night we were having a look at it.  We came to the page about the Great Wall of China and she said to me 'I know all about the big wall of China'.  'Really', I said, 'what can you tell me about it?'  'Well, it's in China.  And it's big'.  Oh, and it's made of China'.  (I would say that the last bit about it being made of China, she said half jokingly, she wasn't entirely sure about that.)

The great job hunt of 2011

Well, I've finally finished with the woman who the job centre very kindly assigned me to.  What a fun three months its been.  She ran a course a few weeks back which I had to attend.  Not quite sure what the point of it was, I learned one thing in the whole three hours.  And I had to sit there and concentrate the whole time because it was in french and if I don't pay attention, I'm inclined to switch off and I thought I might miss something important.  Worse still, from where I was sitting I could see, directly opposite me, a table with a kettle and cups and coffee and various tea bags on it.  Did we get a coffee break?  Did we my arse.  Not even the offer of a drink of water.  But we did have to opportunity to go out for a ciggie if we smoked.   

Then she sent me on another course: 'interview techniques', which I thought might be a good idea, it's been a while since I've had any interview, let alone one in french.  On this occasion I did pick up a few tips, although most of the information given just freaked me out even more than I was already.  It was held in hut in the middle of a desolate place full of other huts disguised as 'training venues'.  All the blinds were down and it looked shut and empty.  I went in and was greeted by the trainer who was wearing combats and high heels.  She faffed about with the projector for half an hour whilst we waited for the other people on the course not to turn up.  So it was just me and one other.  The table for the trainees, which we were sat at, was at the back of the room.  The trainer sat at another large table about a mile away at the front of the room and talked to us from there, never thought to suggest that we could sit closer on account of their only being two of us.  She had the blind open on the window behind her, so we couldn't see her face properly and every time she asked us a question, we never knew who she was talking to.  I think she must have had English blood in her - only once did I not understand something, so I asked her to explain, but she just repeated herself.  I ended up asking her to explain three more times but all she ever did was repeat herself, and in the increasingly louder voice of The Brit Abroad.  I just made something up in the end and either it was right or she just gave up the will to live and let it pass.  I'll never know. 

Anyway, I was very nervous about the course.  I thought there might be the usual 'role-play', fortunately not, but I did have to give a 5 minute talk about myself and my work history as though I was at an interview (1988, who the hell can remember that far back?  Combined with all the red wine and 'Get 21' from that era, no chance).  She asked which one of us would like to go first, so I told the other woman that she would.  Well, what a relief, she was crap, and I mean really crap.  'Um, er, I don't really know what I've done, nothing much really' 'Well, what year did you start working?'  'Er, um, about 1965, I've worked in some factories and done some cleaning stuff a bit, not really sure'.  And so on.  Well, I couldn't do worse than that, so I lept in, wittering on about my qualifications, pretended they were equivalent to this that and the other French diploma, waffled on about working here and there, described what I'm doing now and ended up with a 'tres bien', 'that's just the kind of thing you need to say'!!!!  

Moving on to today then.  Had my last appointment with Ms Hitler.  First of all I get, 'have you completed your form?'  'What form?'  'The one I told you to complete' 'No you didn't' 'Yes I did' 'No' 'Yes. I've written it down here' 'No you didn't you crazy bitch, this is what I wrote when we fixed this appointment: 9am, maybe finish at 10am, maybe 11am, continue to update job centre website, bring copy of business paperwork'.  'Ah, um, ok, sorry. Can you do it now please?'  'Do I have a choice?'  'Of course you bloody don't, this is me you're talking to'.

So she gives me a piece of paper which I have to make into a form, including everything I've done to look for work in the past three months.  Not sure why, I have to go through everything with her everytime I see her, she types it into the computer, prints off two copies, we both have to sign them and then get one each.  I duly complete the 'form' and hand it over.  We then go over it all and she types it into the computer, prints of two copies, we both sign them etc etc.  Then she queries something (well, it's been 15 minutes since she's had something to moan about at me).  'Why have you been applying for jobs?' 'What?' 'Why have you been applying for jobs?  Last time we met, I said that I would not make you look for work anymore because you said that you are too occupied with your business, what's going on?  Why are you applying for jobs?'  The first thing I said was 'WHAT THE FUCK?!?!?!?'  The second thing was 'Oh, I see you understand some English, then' 'Yes, my sister taught me, she's a midwife at the hosital.  She says she learnt it off some mad red-headed English woman who popped in to give birth a few years back and refused an epidural'.  Well.  What a load of b*****ks, (not the blasphemous English woman, that's true), two and a half months of her being pissy because I wasn't applying for jobs, and now she's pissy because I have applied for jobs.

At the end of the session, she handed me another form.  Feedback on the general support provided and the courses I've been on.  With a box at the bottom of the page to rate her personally from 1 to 10.  I put on my best smiley face and jokey demeanour and ask her what would happen if I gave her a 5 (which is what I would like to do).  Well, I momentarily forgot that she's French and of course was born without a proper sense of humour.  'Have you ever seen Goldfinger? Reservoir Dogs? Casino Royale? Braveheart? Dances with Wolves? High Plains Drifter?'  'Errr, yees'.  'They all had certain scenes filmed at my place.  You'd never know it to look at me, but I have a little interest in 'that kind of thing'.  Nothing major, just a hobby really, but it gives me pleasure.'  '10 it is then, you've been very good, I'm so pleased to have met you, thank you very much for all of your help.'

New Glasses

Finally bought some new glasses for myself this week.  Can't afford them, but my old ones were very old - I think they were bought before my eldest was born, I would guess about 9 years ago, possibly more.  They are extremely scratched and I can't see out of them so well, even though my eyes haven't changed.
So on Monday, we went to the optition and chose some new glasses, hubby said at the time I looked very nice in them, and even I thought so too.  Went to pick them up today and as I was paying for them, I said to my dear hubby, 'So, do you still like them, then?'.  He replied: 'Well, they make you look a bit like one of those old ladies that do the knitting on the shreddies advert'.

Now, is that worse than the time, many years ago, when we were going out for the evening, I came downstairs after getting ready and he said to me 'Aren't you going to put any make-up on?' (Needless to say, I had some on).

Thwarted!

Been trying to find a job for a while now; signed on at the job centre, they were very nice (Before you ask, I don't qualify for dole payments, didn't ask for it, didn't expect it, but I had to sign a form to say that I had been 'refused payments' anyway).  I asked for help with my (french) cv and 'lettre de motivation' (basically, covering letter, french style) so they very kindly sent me off to 're-travailler' a type of agency place to help people who are looking for work.  They signed me up for three months.  Well, it doesn't take three months to wirte a cv or a covering letter, so have spent the rest of the time been hassled by the woman in charge about my job applications (or lack of).  Basically, she wants me to go around the local towns, knocking on doors, begging for work (call me 'Yozzer').  She says applying for jobs advertised on the internet is basically a waste of time. 
Not that any of them really suit me anyway.  Can't work five days a week on a permanant basis as we work all weekend from June through to September and that's knackering enough.  (Plus, need time during the week at the moment to do all the jobs that need doing here).  Can't work weekends for same reason.  So I am a bit limited in my available time.  Have seen a few jobs in shops (like till work, shelf stacking) but unemployment is so high around here, employers can demand a lot and all want previous experience.  (How hard can it be to learn to stack a shelf or pass an item in front of a scanning machine?).  I've seen a few very suitable jobs helping out in schools but they are all 'CUI/CAE' which has something to so with the wages being mostly government funded and you can only do them if you fit certain criteria - over 55, single parent , long-term unemployed etc etc, which needless to say I do not qualify for.

Anyway, as I mentioned in the last post, I've been volunteering at these English classes for French children, and I thought, 'I could do this' (Surprisingly, I do have some experience in this area).  Discussed it with some other folk and they thought it was a good idea.  So today, I started making enquiries.  Turns out that I am not allowed to do it.  Not because I am not a teacher (that's not a problem apparently), but because our existing business is currently in my name and I am not allowed, by law, to have two businesses in my sole name.  How bloody stupid is that?  There are two possible options:

Firstly, to change the name of the existing business into hubby's name.  There is no chance of doing this.  The problems we have had, and continue to have, since arriving, with the RSI (who we pay our social charges to) have been so horrific, that to tell them we are changing things just doesn't bear thinking about. 

Secondly, I can take (yet another) trip to Nantes to ask the powers that be if I can have a kind-of 'associated business' alongside the current one.  By all accounts this is highly unlikely to be allowed because teaching English is so completely different from running gites.  I could, for instance have a
B&B alongside the gites, or something else with some relevancy, but English classes would not normally qualify.

So there you go.  No wonder so many French folk work on the black.

Nothing for ages and then three things at once.

Blimey!  It's been a while.  I've even received complaints for not writing anything.  Not really sure why though.  Am really trying to watch what we spend, so not going out unecessarily, and therefore not meeting people who give me cause to complain.  Until now that its, and it's all gone a bit like the buses, nothing for ages and then three come along at once.

Firstly:

Three days ago I nearly fell in the septic tank.  Partly my own fault I suppose, I was standing on top of it and the lid broke.  In fact, my left leg did go in, but fortunately it just missed the contents.  Could have been very nasty.  And then, to get over the shock of nearly landing myself in the shit, I went back to the house for a drink and nearly swallowed a small grasshopper having a swim in my glass.

Secondly: 

I won't go into too much detail here, nobody needs it, but the following day I had an appointment at the hospital.  All I will say that it involved stirrups (and not of the horsey kind) and a student.  Why do they have to take so long and why does there have to be a general discussion about the entire process as well as the 'view' whilst I am lying there as helpless as I would be if I was in handcuffs, only slightly more undignified.

Thirdly:

I have started working as a volunteer at an 'English Club' - ie - for French children to learn English.  The woman who runs it is very nice, but not very organised, poor thing couldn't organise a piss-up in a brewery.  I've got lots of ideas for improvement, but I've only been to two classes so far, so it's not really my place to take over (yet).   Late last night she sent an e-mail with a copy of an article in the local paper about the club, accompanied by a photo of us all.  Now, I don't look good in a photo at the best of times, but in this one I am particularly bad. 

That's me, third from the left, sitting down.  Eyes shut.

I must point out that the article has the wrong hours, the wrong number of children (there's almost 80) and I've never heard anything about a facebook page.   But then they interviewed the woman in charge so that would probably explain it.

Being old.

OMG!!!!  I am soooo old.  Three young twenty-somethings staying in our cottage came over this evening to ask for my advice.  They were talking to me like I was their Mum!  Freaked out a bit until I realised I am actually twice their age.  Now I am very freaked out.  Had to lie down in a darkened room for a while.  Not helped by the fact that I need to do some ironing which is preying on my mind a bit (washed the cushion covers for a sofa we are trying to sell and they are all creased, not a good look).

Been out on the bike a couple more times, managed to get a bit further, but only just.  Was going to go out again today, but large black cloud was looming, so stayed in.  I thought that if it started raining whilst I was out, I wouldn't be able to get back very quickly and would end up very wet indeed.  Had to prepare cv (in french) anyway.

Unfit

Woke up to yet more bloody rain.  However, this afternoon it dried up and we had a bit of sunshine, so I in my wisdom, decided to go out on my bike.  Haven't been on it since last October and have put on a bit of weight since then.  Had to stop at the top of the road.  I used to get all the way up the hill.  And to the village and elsewhere.  After my short stop, went right at the junction along a road that goes downhill slightly.  There were two farmers in the field near to the road, so I ended up turning around and going in the opposite direction as coming back would be uphill and I might not have been able to make it and would have had to stop near the farmers, not having that.  Didn't go far in the other direction, well, it was muddy and I didn't want to get the bike too dirty.  That and I wanted to have a chance of being able to get home.  Had to sit down for a while when I got back, legs were like jelly.